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To The Testicles...and Beyond

Hi All,
This entry is to inform men of a few things. First off, shaving and trimming is very important.  As we all know it adds some inches down there, visually speaking.  But I'm here to say, keep on going...beyond the testicles!  The perineum and anus are a plus.  Even if you're not sure if you'd like any action in down there, the cleanliness is appreciated.  

During arousal your prostate becomes enlarged. It becomes so enlarged that the perineum, aka the taint, becomes swollen and hard to the touch.  The pulse can actually be felt.  Applying pressure, while rubbing up and down on the taint during fellatio gives the prostate some lovin' and feels really good.  So, yes, you can access the prostate without actual anal insertion.  However, rubbing on the prostate internally will increase the male orgasm beyond belief.  Men, enjoying this type of stimulation does not mean you're into men.  If you're worried about a mess, please see my entry "Add "Latex" Gloves To Your Routine."

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Happy Playing,
XOXO!!


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Posted by Sugar at 1/31/2010 10:37 AM | Add Comment

Proper Breathing Can Help You Last Longer In Bed

When we're in the heat of the passion, it's hard to think about our breathing.   As we get closer to orgasm, our heart rate speeds up.  If you can control your breathing, thus slowing down your heart rate, this will slow down your orgasm.   Breathing slows down our heart rates and keeps us focused. Breathing can also get you in tune with your body.  I have had the pleasure of being with someone who taught me how to breathe and really it heightened our experiences.  I was able to feel everything throughout my entire body.  Pretty amazing.  This short article talks about breathing: inhaling, holding your breath for a few seconds and releasing it. Focus on breathing through your nostrils.  It's the easiest way to control your breathing...smaller opening than your mouth.


Fans of  breathing: Tony Horton (P90X), Tantra instructors, Yoga instructors, Meditators, me...to name a few. 



Here's to breathing!
Sugar


PS: Artie Lange, we miss you!


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Posted by Sugar at 1/24/2010 7:29 PM | Add Comment

Oxytocin - The Female Sex Drug

Don't worry folks, this is nothing you have to go out and buy - nothing that needs to be FDA approved.  When we women are touched, our bodies naturally produce a powerful sex hormone called oxytocin. Not only does touch stimulate production of oxytocin, but oxytocin promotes a desire to touch and be touched: it's a feedback loop that can have wonderful results. Basically the more we are touched, the more oxytocin our bodies produce...making us want to be touched more.  This is why when we get "it", we want "it" more often and all the time.  Oxytocin makes us feel good about the person who causes the oxytocin to be released and it causes a bonding between the two persons. Nursing a baby produces oxytocin in both mother and child, and this is a major part of what initially bonds the mother and her baby. Even thinking of someone we love and enjoy can stimulate this hormone.  When women in good relationships were asked to think about their partners, the level of oxytocin in their blood rose quickly. Any amount of touch is good.  Whether it be curled up on opposite ends of the couch; if there is foot / leg contact it is producing oxytocin. Oxytocin's affect on the brain is greatly dependent on its interactions with sex hormones such as estrogen, progesterone, testosterone and corticosterone. However, its effectiveness as the 'cuddle hormone' requires the presence of estrogen. This fact may partially explain some of the behavioral differences between the sexes when it comes to intimacy, the desire for cuddling and the touches role in the ability to achieve orgasm, since women's bodies produce vastly more estrogen than the male body.



Here's to touching!!

Sugs


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Posted by Sugar at 1/16/2010 4:03 PM | Add Comment

Get Healthy and Save Money at 24 Hour Fitness

Hi All,
We all know that working out has many benefits.  Here are "Ten Reasons to Work Out That Has Nothing to Do With a Sexy Bod."  He left out "happiness", so it's really eleven. Here's another benefit if you have access to a Costco and a 24 Hour Fitness!!  I hate going to my local 24 Hour Fitness and watching people sign up if they are not getting the best price.  I would really love to share this huge money saving offer.  For the past couple years, Costco has been selling a 2 year, Sport Club membership for $299.  This breaks down to a measly $12.46 a month.  Keep in mind 24 Hour Fitness has monthly deals but NONE as good as this.  They do offer a pre pay for 5 years and the real savings come AFTER that 5 years.  Then the monthly fees are approximately $9.  If you're able to come up with a large chunk of money, that's a good one.  With this economy, coming up with $299 may be tough too.  To put it in perspective as of 01.07.10, their special is $30 a month, pay first and last month's dues, having the initiation fee of only $10.  For two years...that comes out to be $730!!  That's a difference of $431!!  Crazy huh?  Their other special is to pre pay for one year for only $250 which for two years it would come out to be $500.  The difference being $201.  I'm not sure on processing fees on 24 Hour Fitness pre pay.  For Costco...it's zip, zero, zilch.

For those of you who have signed up within thirty days...you can still cancel your membership and purchase this Costco one.  Please note that whatever you pay monthly, it will be your price forever! I pay $16 a month.  I didn't do the Costco one because I don't know how long they will sell them. I didn't want two years to come and go and then run the risk of paying $35 a month or something ridiculous like that.  Last month's special was $35 a month and no processing fee which I think was $99.  

Let's all get fit while saving money!!  There's no reason to pay full price.  Go with a friend who has a Costco membership.  One last Costco savings thing.  Your Guest can also use the Eye Exam place. Which means they can order glasses and contacts with you.  

Don't you LOOOOOOOVE saving money!?!



XOXO,
Sugar Sugs


In Honor of Artie Lange, I will mention him in every blog from here on out. You are loved by MILLIONS!
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Posted by Sugar at 1/10/2010 8:22 AM | Add Comment

What is your most interesting / funny oral sex story?

Take survey HERE
Here are some responses to the above survey question: What is your most interesting / funny oral sex story?

"I was going down on this guy and when he "finished" i looked up at him and he gave me the cheeziest thumbs up!."

"A gal I see was having a get together with the girls for wine and cheese.  I came over afterward and she was pretty buzzed.  Let's just say during the act, I ended up having wine and bruschetta on me. She was embarrassed.  Said sorry.  Cleaned it off.  And continued.  It was hot because she was so into the fellatio, she didn't care...nor did I. I still see her years later."

"It was one my first times going down on a guy.  When he "finished", I had spit it out into the empty water glass next to the bed.  He got up, saw it and said 'You won't drink my 'stuff'?  You won't drink my 'stuff'? I'll drink my 'stuff'!'  He then took it down like it was a shot of booze.  We didn't speak for years!"

"I was 13, with my first "girlfriend" and leaving for the summer to stay with my father. My girlfriend and I spent our last day at the beach (at the end of summer we were both going to different high schools, so this was essentially our breakup and we both knew it). She said she had a surprise for me, and we walked up on top of the bluff above the beach where it was private, or so we thought. Somehow she ended up giving me a blow job right there in the middle of the dirt path overlooking the beach. i was on my back, as she went at it and all of the sudden four adult hikers appeared directly above me... my gal was mortified and just stayed there hiding under her hair while I blushed as they literally had to step over me to get past us on the path. hilarious..."


"I was giving oral sex to a guy and out of the blue he slapped my face, really hard. I stopped and looked at him and he asked if I liked it. I said not really and went back to giving him head and about minute later he did it again and said, yea I know you like that. So I got up and left."


"Getting pulled over by police while receiving 'it'."


"It was really before I had any real experience in the oral sex department since I had only tried it once or twice. I was in junior high but someone had a fake ID so we scored a few two liter California Coolers. Not only was I unexperienced at oral sex, but I was also a new comer to alcohol. It didn't take much time to pass before me and my friends were all pretty tipsy and acting silly. The boys thought it would be a good idea to get us home or near by at least so that we could 'park.' We left quickly and piled into the small sports car. I immediately wasn't feeling so well and tried to roll down the window and get some fresh air. My date however had different ideas and pulled his wanker out of his pants and pulled me closer to him for easy access. I was really not feeling well and tried to stand my ground and mumble some kind of thanks but no thanks. My refusal was met by a more insistent man handling on his part. He tried to change the placement of my head and face so that it was directly over his bare crotch. This movement caused me to panic and with that panic came a sudden urge that could not be helped. I projectile vomited all over his quivering little penis. That's it, the end. I wonder how he remembers it?"


"I was performing oral sex on my girlfriend and she fell asleep!!"


"Was sucking my bf's {penis} in the back seat of a friend's convertible, with the top down, after a night out at the bar... we were driving through the La Posta drive-thru and all the employees lined up at the window to watch as we were driving through to pick up our food. (total short version)"


"Once gave a blow job in the back of a movie theater while watching the Spice Girls movie. The theater was pretty much empty and we were in the back. i spat the present on the floor. Ghetto"


"As far as interesting places I would have to say the drive thru car wash. As far as funny situation: I have TMJ, so after his climax, my mouth got stuck out of place since my mouth was opened so long.  My boyfriend had to help me realign my jaw."


"I was receiving the best oral of my life when my partner started gagging, took her mouth off of me, and spit in her hands. I asked "what's wrong?" Then she asked me "why didn't you tell me?" So I asked "tell you what?" and she said "that you were going to {orgasm}." I told her that I didn't, but she insisted that I did. Is it possible to {finish} and not even know it? To this day I'm still not sure what happened."

    

   Sugar: I have a friend who studies every aspect of human sexuality, the mind and everything on so many levels.  A quick text to him and he said it is possible.  He didn't  elaborate. He's short like that....but very knowledgeable.

"in a shower with two boys who managed to stay faaarrrr away from each other, one {penis} in hand, one in mouth~ it was innocent i swear."



Posted by Sugar at 12/28/2009 9:56 PM | Add Comment

Perfect Winter Cider

Hi All,
Come winter time, I'm a fan of warm tasty beverages.  Bailey's with hot chocolate / coffee is one of my favorites.  The other is hot apple cider with a little bit of Apple Pucker in it. I recently tried a better alternative to the apple cider mixture.  Mike's Hard Lemonade has come out with a seasonal flavor called Spiced Apple.  Honestly, I'm not a fan of it cold but I'd like to suggest it heated up.  It comes in a glass bottle so please don't heat it up in the bottle.  If it's you and a friend, crack it open, pour in mug and toss in microwave.  So perfect on these cold toasty nights!  If you're having a get together you can pour some in a pot and leave on the stove.  Even better, I would like to suggest a Crock Pot.  This way you can leave it by the snacks and food or at your bar.  Don't forget your ladle.  Try adding some cinnamon sticks to your Crock Pot.  Mike's Hard Apple Cider contains 5.9% alcohol and costs about $7.50 a six pack and can be found at most grocery stores.  Just remember this fun variation for a Winter get together beverage.  



XOXO!

Posted by Sugar at 12/17/2009 11:19 PM | Add Comment

"Life's Short. Have an Affair." -- Ashley Madison

Hi All,
I write about Ashley Madison because finally there is a website designed specifically for married people to date. Maybe spice up what's missing from the marriage.  I say finally because if you have ever been on any dating site, a lot of the men are actually married.  This just puts it out there. Ashley Madison was founded in 2001 and is millions strong.  They say a new member signs up every 15 seconds.  They even have "an affair to remember" guarantee.  Hey it's a money back guarantee.  Maybe if Eliot Spitzer had signed up things would be different for him. Regarding Tiger Woods, 50 Cent said "he just picked the wrong girls."  Is the count still at 9??  Fitty also called the girls chickens...derived from chicken heads...which means stupid or not very bright.  I just read that Ashley Madison offered Tiger $5 million to be the spokesman for their site.  I invite you to go the Ashley Madison comments page.  One lady named Happily Married states how cheaters are the lowest thing ever.  By the end she's saying well it's better than having an office, BFF or prostitute romance.  So check it out and form your own opinion.  A lot of people think 'oh not my man' or 'not my spouse'.  Ashley Madison is over 3 million strong! Someone IS signing up.  I found another link that explains the site to see if it's up your alley. I'm not saying it's right. Nor am I saying it's wrong. I'm all about educating and letting people know what's out there.
 
"Lipstick on your collar told a tale on you. Lipstick on your collar said you were untrue."--Connie Francis

XOXO!
Sugar

Posted by Sugar at 12/7/2009 6:54 PM | Add Comment

Wash Your Hands!



Seinfeld NBC Poppie Is Sloppy


So I was thinking about my hand washing entry and remembered this episode.  I was at my friend's house a couple years ago and  he was in the process of making his dinner.  He had to go drop the kids of at the pool.  When he returned from doing so, he continued to make dinner WITHOUT washing his hands first.  I was like OMG!  Keep in mind this person had been having stomach issues.  We thought maybe it was due to the high protein diet he had just changed to.  After seeing that...I knew what the issue was.  I was very thankful I was not part of dinner that evening.  To this day, I still have to keep after him when he exits the bathroom.  This is a grown man, peoples!  It's just gross.  Granted it's his house and his dinner but he's probably leaving trace amounts of fecal matter around the house.  Yuck!

Moral of the story:  WASH YOUR HANDS!!

Tell me your experiences and I will share them.  I will change the names of course! info@sugarslipservice.com

Posted by Sugar at 11/26/2009 9:52 AM | Add Comment

Wash Your Hands Before Putting That In Me

Hi All,
I've decided to talk about hand washing.  The reason being is a lot of people don't think about it in terms of sex.  Current statistics say that less than a third of men wash their hands after going to the bathroom.  Women, we're better it at but still not 100%. If you don't wash your hands, whatever you touch is going to end up in you one way or another.  Whether it be a finger in your mouth or any other orifice.  I don't even want dirty hands touching my face, let alone inside my hoo haa.  Women, we are so delicate downstairs that if our partners aren't washing their hands before action...tell them to!  If you're highly susceptible to yeast infections, vaginosis, etc., this could cut down on the bacteria you are absorbing vaginally.  Even if they are not fondling our love box with their hands...usually a man will touch his genitals during any foreplay for stimulation. If you're going down on his manhood and he hasn't washed his hands...you are guaranteed to get whatever he touched.  With the whole swine flu and flu season upon us, it's very important to take hand washing to a new level.  Please consider hand washing before you start playing.  This will sound gross but I shouldn't be able to smell or taste anything on your hands.  To put in perspective, imagine someone handling pennies all day. Now imagine the taste and smell of their hands. To top it off, throw in all that bacteria from that dirty money.  Simply said: wash your hands!  If everyone knows washing hands cut down on the spread of germs and diseases, why isn't it second nature? Yes...even if you're home alone, scrub up.  It's only 30 seconds! Being that I'm Earth conscious, I must say turn off that water while scrubbing up.  

 
XOXO,
Sugar






Posted by Sugar at 11/22/2009 10:52 AM | Add Comment

No More Odor, Men!

OK guys,
We all know your boys sweat but you may not realize the sweaty ball smell you have.  I've had this conversation with many gals...some like it...some don't.  I actually call it "sweaty ball smell" and I tell ya, everyone I speak to knows EXACTLY what I'm talking about!  There are degrees of this scent from mild to OMG!  I would like to suggest two products for your jewels.  NodorO (NO odor...cute!) and FreshBalls.  NodorO is available at CVS and online which is shipped discreetly.  It comes in a .35 oz. tube and sells for $12.99. FreshBalls comes in a 3 oz. tube and is available online only for $14.99 which includes shipping.  FreshBalls does not contain aluminum, paraben or talc.  Talc has been known to cause cervical cancer.  Check out these sites boys!  Ladies, maybe you want to get this for your man.





XOXO!

Posted by Sugar at 11/9/2009 7:53 PM | Add Comment
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